Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Life on the other side of the Wall..



              It was 00.45 a.m. on a moderately cold January night in Hyderabad. It was one of those unfortunate days when I had to stay late. ‘Will I get something to eat at this ungodly hour,' was my gnawing thought as I stepped out of office.
              I have seen children crying for a toy. As soon as they get it, you can instantly see a sense of immense satisfaction on their faces. I could not get a better example to explain what I was feeling when I saw a bunch of small shops just outside my office still selling all kinds of refreshments — aloo parathas, cold drinks, Maggi noodles and a lot more. As I started walking towards them with a shivering body and a crying stomach, I saw one of the stall owners staring at me as if I was the one he had been waiting for all along. Without wasting a nanosecond, I approached him and asked for a plate of Maggi noodles.
With a pleasant smile, he said: “Sir, give me 2 minutes, it will be ready.” Then, suddenly, one of those “Maggi 2 min noodles” advertisements, which I have seen right from my childhood, struck me. I could not have appreciated the USP of that advertisement more than I did this day. I was all lost in my Maggi thoughts when I heard a voice, “Do you want it spicy?” “Make it the way you like,” I said and started looking at my watch. It was already 7 minutes. Now, he was ready and handed me a plate full of the most delicious Maggi I would ever get to taste in my life (at least, my stomach was telling me so).
Chit-chat
Spoon after quicker spoon, my hunger moderated and I thought of having a little chit-chat with the guy who was my hero now. I told him “Anna, thanks….it was very tasty.” He smiled and, pointing me towards a flask, said “we keep tea also, in case you want it.” Interpreting his reply beyond the sales pitch part of it, I asked him to make sure that I don't get the same scary feeling of not finding anything to eat after 10 p.m. “Anna, till what time do you keep your shop open?” As he replied, “Till 1 O'clock, sir” (he was busy stirring his spoon to mix another Maggi), I started wondering how they got to manage their shop 17 hours a day as I have seen the same few shops there in the day when I crossed them while coming to office.
Daily routine
Asked about his daily routine, my shop wallah said he got up at 6 in the morning and after taking a cup of tea prepared by his wife, came to the place cycling 10 km from his village. He sets up shop fully before the IT crowd streams in.
He prepares fresh tea, keeps a variety of snacks in glass jars so that flies and people can take a peek at them. There are also cigarettes of various brands on display for those who do not care about looking at the picture of two cancerous lungs pasted on top of every packet.
Soon, people start coming and his typical business day begins when he gets those first few rupees. Who will believe that the guy, who eats his brunch by 11 a.m. and dinner at 11 p.m., keeps everyone else eating throughout the day? He told me he makes every effort to fulfill the needs of the customer in terms of both quality and timing of food so that they do not stray towards his competitors who are just a few feet away selling the same stuff at moderately the same price.
Under these circumstances of intense competition, it is the bonding between the customer and the vendor that matters while making the choice rather than the price. If one day he says “no” to one of his customers, probably the latter will never come back to him.
His point of having food twice a day at odd hours soon seemed justified. He told me he starts packing the stuff (leftover snacks, cigarettes packets, etc.,) by 12.45 at midnight to be taken home, being afraid of thugs, after serving the last batch of customers like me, and starts cleaning the vessels.
Happiest moment
Gathering his earnings for the day is the happiest moment for him in the otherwise dull and hard day that kept him working throughout — literally like a robot. He gets to sleep only after 2 a.m. and phew, a day ended!
He works Monday to Friday here as the weekend is not worth the trouble of opening the shop.
Asked what he does on the two fortunate days for both of us, he looked at me as if I slapped him hard and replied, “Sir, the other two days might be fortunate for you, but I have to work harder on those days as I need to attend to my farmland in my village which my wife takes care of in my absence.” I, generally, spend my weekends sleeping.
              Now, I know how life goes on either side of the wall that stands between our workplaces. It will be difficult for the existence of one without the other. Both complement each. However, I feel that I am on the privileged side, as I do only half the time of work of the other side or even less, and get paid more, actually a lot more than the other side. Still I complain, still strive for a better place, and still feel unsatisfied. But the man standing on the other side of the wall still thinks I work harder than him and hence I earn more. 

- Source: THE HINDU, December 25, 2011 01:51 IST
 

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Why Men are Never Depressed..


This is for the women who can handle it and to the men who will enjoy reading it...

Men Are Just Happier People-- What do you expect from such simple creatures.

Your last name stays put. Wedding plans take care of themselves. Chocolate is just another snack. You can be President. You can never be pregnant.

You can wear a white T-shirt to a water park. You can wear NO shirt to a water park. Car mechanics tell you the truth. The world is your urinal.  You don't have to stop and think of which way to turn a nut on a bolt. Same work, more pay. Wrinkles add character. Wedding dress $500. New shoes don't cut, blister, or mangle your feet.
One mood all the time.

Phone conversations are over in 30 seconds flat. You know stuff about tanks. A five-day vacation requires only one suitcase. You can open all your own jars. You get extra credit for the slightest act of thoughtfulness. If someone forgets to invite you, he or she can still be your friend.

Three pairs of shoes are more than enough. You almost never have strap problems in public. You are unable to see wrinkles in your clothes. Everything on your face stays its original color. The same hairstyle lasts for years, maybe decades. You only have to shave your face and neck(best one).

You can play with toys all your life. One wallet and one pair of shoes -- one color for all seasons. You can wear shorts no matter how your legs look. You can 'do' your nails with a pocket knife. You have freedom of choice concerning growing a mustache.

You can do Christmas shopping for 25 relatives on December 24 in 25 minutes.

No wonder men are happier.

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

GIRLS Please Read this.. Here is 99 Facts about GUYS!!



1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.

2. Guys hate flirts.

3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.

4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.

5. “Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.

6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.

8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.

9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.

10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.

11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.

12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!

13. Guys cry!!!

14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.

15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.

16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.

17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.

18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what? Uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.

19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.

20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.

22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow.”

23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.

24. Guys hate nice boy!

25. Guys love their moms.

26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.

28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.

30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.

31. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.

32. Guys are very open about themselves.

33. Its good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.

34. No guy is bad when he is courting

35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.

36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.

37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.

39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.

41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.

42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.

43. Guys virtually brag about anything.

44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.

45. Guys think too much.

46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.

47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!

48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!

49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.

50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.

51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.

52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.

53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.

54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.

55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.

56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.

57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.

58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me”

59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.

60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.

61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.

62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.

63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.

64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.

66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.

67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.

68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.

69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!

70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.

72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.

73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.

74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.

75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.

76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.

77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.

78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.

79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.

80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.

81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.

82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.

83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.

84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.

85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.

86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed of you or he’s criticizing you.

87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.

88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.

89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.

90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!

92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.

93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.

94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.

95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.

96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!

97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.

98. Guys hate girls who overreact.

99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

Monday, September 26, 2011

Missing My Childhood Life...!


When the school reopened in June, And we settled in our new desks and benches!

When we queued up in book depot, And got our new books and notes!

When we wanted two Sundays and no Mondays, yet managed to line up daily for the morning prayers...

We learnt writing with slates and pencils, and Progressed To fountain pens and ball pens and then Micro tips!

When we began drawing with crayons and evolved to Color pencils and finally sketch pens!

When we started calculating first with tables and then with Clarke's tables and advanced to Calculators and computers!

When we chased one another in the corridors in Intervals, and returned to the classrooms Drenched in sweat!

When we had lunch in classrooms, corridors, Playgrounds, under the trees and even in cycle sheds!

When a single P.T. period in the week's TimeTable,Was awaited more eagerly than the monsoons!

When cricket was played with writing pads as bats, And Neckties and socks rolled into balls!

When few played 'kabadi' and 'Kho-Kho' in scorching sun, While others simply played 'book cricket' in the Confines of classroom!

When we used to watch Live Cricket telecast, In the opposite house in Intervals and Lunch breaks!

When few rushed at 3:50 to 'Conquer' window seats in our School bus!
While few others had 'Big Fun', 'peppermint' , 'Cycle Race' at 4'o Clock!

Gone are the days Of Sports Day, and the annual School Day , And the one-month long preparations for them.

Gone are the days Of the stressful Quarterly,Half Yearly and Annual Exams, And the most enjoyed holidays after them!

Gone are the days Of tenth and twelfth standards, when We Spent almost the whole year writing revision tests!

We learnt,
We enjoyed,
We played,
We won,
We lost,
We laughed,
We cried,
We fought,
We thought.

With so much fun in them, so many friends, So much experience, all this and more!

Gone are the days When we used to talk for hours with our friends!
Now we don't have time to say a `Hi'!

Gone are the days When we played games on the road! Now we Code on the road with laptop!

Gone are the days, When we saw stars Shining at Night! Now we see stars when our code doesn't Work!

Gone are the days, When we sat to chat with Friends on grounds! Now we chat in chat rooms.......!

Gone are the days, Where we studied just to pass! Now we study to save our job!

Wanna go back to my lost Days... ;-(  Will you join me...!