Today is a gift, that is why it is called The Present!!

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room.

One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from
his lungs.

His bed was next to the room's only window.

The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back.

The men talked for hours on end.

They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation..

Every afternoon, when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.

The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.

The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm a midst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.

As the man by the window described all this in exquisite details, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine this picturesque scene.

One warm afternoon, the man by the window described a parade passing by.

Although the other man could not hear the band - he could see it in his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words.

Days, weeks and months passed.
One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep.

She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away.

As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window.
The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.

Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside.
He strained to slowly turn to look out the window besides the bed.

It faced a blank wall.

The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window.

The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall.

She said, 'Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you.'

Epilogue:
There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations.
Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled.
If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy.
'Today is a gift, that is why it is called The Present .'

The origin of this letter is unknown.

His Unexpected Mails!!

She logged into her old e-mail account almost after a year, shocked to see a few mails by his name. He was her ex. It had almost roughly seven to eight months that they had separated and she was alright from the time they parted. It never seemed a big deal to her. It was her decision. She wanted the space, her life to her. She suddenly told him what she felt. With lot of pain he accepted and they parted.

              He documented all his sentiments in those few mails, all that he felt, how he was not able to cope up with the current situation. He wrote her all the stuff he did in a day saying he just didn't have anyone else to tell. He knew she never used this old email of her. One of the lines he quoted was "Don't take my mails as an emotional drama that I’m doing to make you realize or repent anything. It’s just that this way I can feel a little close to you. Hoping you will never read these mails."

             Her heart was racing. She opened his last mail. It said "Hey Darling, writing you this last mail. I waited dear hoping you would come and surprise me to say we need to get back. Every day I roam on the streets to see if you'd be standing there. Every day I used to dream of you, recollecting the memories that we were together. I know I’m just being an emotional fool but I never knew you would care so less. I never thought you won't care to the extent of not even asking how I am doing. I can't explain you the pain and I can't explain you how the days and nights I have spent staring at the phone. All I wanted to know was I didn't waste my time on someone not worth Loving. But you just proved it. I did. Trying to hate you all possible ways but somewhere I do love you. Goodbye!

                    She hurried to get her phone. She dialed his number to hear a voice saying he was not reachable...!

Life on the other side of the Wall..

              It was 00.45 a.m. on a moderately cold January night in Hyderabad. It was one of those unfortunate days when I had to stay late. ‘Will I get something to eat at this ungodly hour,' was my gnawing thought as I stepped out of office.

              I have seen children crying for a toy. As soon as they get it, you can instantly see a sense of immense satisfaction on their faces. I could not get a better example to explain what I was feeling when I saw a bunch of small shops just outside my office still selling all kinds of refreshments — aloo parathas, cold drinks, Maggi noodles and a lot more. As I started walking towards them with a shivering body and a crying stomach, I saw one of the stall owners staring at me as if I was the one he had been waiting for all along. Without wasting a nanosecond, I approached him and asked for a plate of Maggi noodles.

With a pleasant smile, he said: “Sir, give me 2 minutes, it will be ready.” Then, suddenly, one of those “Maggi 2 min noodles” advertisements, which I have seen right from my childhood, struck me. I could not have appreciated the USP of that advertisement more than I did this day. I was all lost in my Maggi thoughts when I heard a voice, “Do you want it spicy?” “Make it the way you like,” I said and started looking at my watch. It was already 7 minutes. Now, he was ready and handed me a plate full of the most delicious Maggi I would ever get to taste in my life (at least, my stomach was telling me so).

Chit-chat

Spoon after quicker spoon, my hunger moderated and I thought of having a little chit-chat with the guy who was my hero now. I told him “Anna, thanks….it was very tasty.” He smiled and, pointing me towards a flask, said “we keep tea also, in case you want it.” Interpreting his reply beyond the sales pitch part of it, I asked him to make sure that I don't get the same scary feeling of not finding anything to eat after 10 p.m. “Anna, till what time do you keep your shop open?” As he replied, “Till 1 O'clock, sir” (he was busy stirring his spoon to mix another Maggi), I started wondering how they got to manage their shop 17 hours a day as I have seen the same few shops there in the day when I crossed them while coming to office.

Daily routine

Asked about his daily routine, my shop wallah said he got up at 6 in the morning and after taking a cup of tea prepared by his wife, came to the place cycling 10 km from his village. He sets up shop fully before the IT crowd streams in.

He prepares fresh tea, keeps a variety of snacks in glass jars so that flies and people can take a peek at them. There are also cigarettes of various brands on display for those who do not care about looking at the picture of two cancerous lungs pasted on top of every packet.

Soon, people start coming and his typical business day begins when he gets those first few rupees. Who will believe that the guy, who eats his brunch by 11 a.m. and dinner at 11 p.m., keeps everyone else eating throughout the day? He told me he makes every effort to fulfill the needs of the customer in terms of both quality and timing of food so that they do not stray towards his competitors who are just a few feet away selling the same stuff at moderately the same price.

Under these circumstances of intense competition, it is the bonding between the customer and the vendor that matters while making the choice rather than the price. If one day he says “no” to one of his customers, probably the latter will never come back to him.

His point of having food twice a day at odd hours soon seemed justified. He told me he starts packing the stuff (leftover snacks, cigarettes packets, etc.,) by 12.45 at midnight to be taken home, being afraid of thugs, after serving the last batch of customers like me, and starts cleaning the vessels.

Happiest moment

Gathering his earnings for the day is the happiest moment for him in the otherwise dull and hard day that kept him working throughout — literally like a robot. He gets to sleep only after 2 a.m. and phew, a day ended!

He works Monday to Friday here as the weekend is not worth the trouble of opening the shop.

Asked what he does on the two fortunate days for both of us, he looked at me as if I slapped him hard and replied, “Sir, the other two days might be fortunate for you, but I have to work harder on those days as I need to attend to my farmland in my village which my wife takes care of in my absence.” I, generally, spend my weekends sleeping.

              Now, I know how life goes on either side of the wall that stands between our workplaces. It will be difficult for the existence of one without the other. Both complement each. However, I feel that I am on the privileged side, as I do only half the time of work of the other side or even less, and get paid more, actually a lot more than the other side. Still I complain, still strive for a better place, and still feel unsatisfied. But the man standing on the other side of the wall still thinks I work harder than him and hence I earn more. 

- Source: THE HINDU, December 25, 2011 01:51 IST

 

Why Men are Never Depressed..

This is for the women who can handle it and to the men who will enjoy reading it...

Men Are Just Happier People-- What do you expect from such simple creatures.

Your last name stays put. Wedding plans take care of themselves. Chocolate is just another snack. You can be President. You can never be pregnant.

You can wear a white T-shirt to a water park. You can wear NO shirt to a water park. Car mechanics tell you the truth. The world is your urinal.  You don't have to stop and think of which way to turn a nut on a bolt. Same work, more pay. Wrinkles add character. Wedding dress $500. New shoes don't cut, blister, or mangle your feet.
One mood all the time.

Phone conversations are over in 30 seconds flat. You know stuff about tanks. A five-day vacation requires only one suitcase. You can open all your own jars. You get extra credit for the slightest act of thoughtfulness. If someone forgets to invite you, he or she can still be your friend.

Three pairs of shoes are more than enough. You almost never have strap problems in public. You are unable to see wrinkles in your clothes. Everything on your face stays its original color. The same hairstyle lasts for years, maybe decades. You only have to shave your face and neck(best one).

You can play with toys all your life. One wallet and one pair of shoes -- one color for all seasons. You can wear shorts no matter how your legs look. You can 'do' your nails with a pocket knife. You have freedom of choice concerning growing a mustache.

You can do Christmas shopping for 25 relatives on December 24 in 25 minutes.

No wonder men are happier.

GIRLS Please Read this.. Here is 99 Facts about GUYS!!

1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.

2. Guys hate flirts.

3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.

4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.

5. “Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.

6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.

8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.

9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.

10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.

11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.

12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!

13. Guys cry!!!

14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.

15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.

16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.

17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.

18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what? Uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.

19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.

20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.

22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow.”

23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.

24. Guys hate nice boy!

25. Guys love their moms.

26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.

28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.

30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.

31. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.

32. Guys are very open about themselves.

33. Its good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.

34. No guy is bad when he is courting

35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.

36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.

37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.

39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.

41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.

42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.

43. Guys virtually brag about anything.

44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.

45. Guys think too much.

46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.

47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!

48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!

49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.

50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.

51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.

52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.

53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.

54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.

55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.

56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.

57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.

58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me”

59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.

60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.

61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.

62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.

63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.

64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.

66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.

67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.

68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.

69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!

70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.

72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.

73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.

74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.

75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.

76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.

77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.

78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.

79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.

80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.

81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.

82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.

83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.

84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.

85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.

86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed of you or he’s criticizing you.

87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.

88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.

89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.

90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!

92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.

93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.

94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.

95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.

96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!

97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.

98. Guys hate girls who overreact.

99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

Missing My Childhood Life...!

When the school reopened in June, And we settled in our new desks and benches!

When we queued up in book depot, And got our new books and notes!

When we wanted two Sundays and no Mondays, yet managed to line up daily for the morning prayers...

We learnt writing with slates and pencils, and Progressed To fountain pens and ball pens and then Micro tips!

When we began drawing with crayons and evolved to Color pencils and finally sketch pens!

When we started calculating first with tables and then with Clarke's tables and advanced to Calculators and computers!

When we chased one another in the corridors in Intervals, and returned to the classrooms Drenched in sweat!

When we had lunch in classrooms, corridors, Playgrounds, under the trees and even in cycle sheds!

When a single P.T. period in the week's TimeTable,Was awaited more eagerly than the monsoons!

When cricket was played with writing pads as bats, And Neckties and socks rolled into balls!

When few played 'kabadi' and 'Kho-Kho' in scorching sun, While others simply played 'book cricket' in the Confines of classroom!

When we used to watch Live Cricket telecast, In the opposite house in Intervals and Lunch breaks!

When few rushed at 3:50 to 'Conquer' window seats in our School bus!
While few others had 'Big Fun', 'peppermint' , 'Cycle Race' at 4'o Clock!

Gone are the days Of Sports Day, and the annual School Day , And the one-month long preparations for them.

Gone are the days Of the stressful Quarterly,Half Yearly and Annual Exams, And the most enjoyed holidays after them!

Gone are the days Of tenth and twelfth standards, when We Spent almost the whole year writing revision tests!

We learnt,
We enjoyed,
We played,
We won,
We lost,
We laughed,
We cried,
We fought,
We thought.

With so much fun in them, so many friends, So much experience, all this and more!

Gone are the days When we used to talk for hours with our friends!
Now we don't have time to say a `Hi'!

Gone are the days When we played games on the road! Now we Code on the road with laptop!

Gone are the days, When we saw stars Shining at Night! Now we see stars when our code doesn't Work!

Gone are the days, When we sat to chat with Friends on grounds! Now we chat in chat rooms.......!

Gone are the days, Where we studied just to pass! Now we study to save our job!

Wanna go back to my lost Days... ;-(  Will you join me...!

Simple Google Search Tricks..

1. Use the "site:" operator to limit searches to a particular site.

Some sites don't even have a search feature. If you want to search for a site mobiles, type as follow in google search.

site:mobiles.com [or] site:mobiles.*

For example: site:tricz.*.*

site:songs.*

2. Use Google as a spelling id "define:" operator.

If you want to get a definition of a word, you can use the "define:" operator to return definitions from various dictionaries.

For example: define: Wifi

define: Embedded Systems

define: Your keyword

3. Use Google as a calculator.

Google has a built-in calculator. You can make calcuations like

10*(100000000/99999999+3333)

4. Find out what time it is anywhere in the world.

For example: Time India

Time USA

Time Country or City Name

5. Get quick currency conversions.

Google can also do currency conversion,

For example: 1 dollar in Indian rupee

1 Indian rupee in pounds

6. Search for specific document types using "filetype:" operator.

If you want to search for specific types of files, use "filetype:" opearor.

For example: hacking filetype:pdf

Network security filetype:ppt

7. Identify Local Weather for Any City in the world using "weather place".

For example: Weather hyderabad

Weather Amalapuram, Andhra pradesh

(for small towns you have to include state name)

8. Exclude Keywords in the search using "--"(minus) .

If you want Google to exclude a word while searching the web page, use -(minus) before the search. Searching word ebooks without the word free.

For example: ebooks -free

9. Use OR in Google Search.

Using OR opeartor in between the two words makes the following kind of search possible in google.

For example: Dos batch examples OR programs

10. Area code Lookup.

For Example: 415 or 617 Any 3-Digit area code.

11. Numeric ranges using .. operator.

For Example: President 1940..1950

Olympics 1940..1950

12. Phone Listing using "phonebook:" operator.

For example: phonebook: 10 digit mobile number.

I Love Google, and You..??

One of the Best Story written by a failure Lover

Date: Today
Place: A marriage hall, Hyderabad, India.
Finally, the marriage is taking place today. I was waiting so long for this. And now it’s happening. First big occasion in my life. All the pre-marriage ceremonies were going on. It’s a Brahmin marriage. So needless to say about the ceremonies. Yes, she is a Brahmin. My angel. I was restlessly waiting to get a glimpse of her in her wedding saree. I was pretending to be chatting with my friends but my eyes were searching for her. Still 30 minutes to go for the auspicious time. Damn. That’s a long way. I thought I could do a little flashback of my life. With her.
7 years ago.
Place: 12th grade chemistry lab, school, some developing town in Andhra Pradesh, India.
Generally I’m quite a reserved person. I don’t speak to girls much. I used to be the topper in school. So all girls speak to me only to clarify their doubts regarding studies. She studied with me from class 3. Now we were in class 12. That’s 10 years. But we would’ve spoken hardly 10 times. It was yet another regular day in chemistry lab. All of us were fighting with pipettes and burettes and some solutions. Being a topper, obviously I fought harder than others. After class I went near the basin to drain the resultant solution. Good timing. She was already there. She saw me with her cute eyes.
She: hi studious, got the output???
Me: Ha… you??
She: Me too. I wanna ask you something??
Me(surprised): Why. Whats that? Ask.
She: Why is that you don’t speak to girls much?
Me(stammering): I…i…I don’t know. Not like that.
She: U know what? I really like you very much. I wanted to be friends with you. But don’t know how you’ll take it. I was hesitant for long time. Now I told. Please accept me as your friend. Please please.
Completely taken aback. I never expected this from her. I was expecting something like ‘what is the color change to record the pH of the solution?’.
Me: Ha sure..
I fell for the girlish cuteness on her smile.
Me: Ok bye.. I’ve to complete the record notebook. See you later.
Yes I was such a dumb head.
I was so happy for the next few weeks. I never spoke to her after that lab incident. I always wanted to speak. But didn’t know how, when and what. I wanted her phone number desperately. We didn’t have any mobile phones that time. Somehow I got her landline number through my friend’s friend who is her friend. I gave her a ring and literally my hands were trembling when I did so. I was praying that her mom or dad shouldn’t pick the phone. Someone said hello. Thank god it was her. I spoke to her the first time on phone. I was happy that I did my part on becoming her friend. So, that’s how our friendship journey begun.
Today:
Finally my wait was over. The priest at the center of the marriage hall asked the bride to come forward. There she came. With a maroon silk saree draped around her beautifully. I could see the fear of getting married, on her cute round face. The fear of being the center of attraction. She looked beautiful more than ever. Marvelous, stupendous, cute, classy, elegant…. I scolded myself for my lack of words and my poor vocabulary. She sat at the center of the stage. She was smiling. I looked at my watch. Another 20 minutes left for calling the groom to stage. I thought that’s enough time to rewind how we both ended up here in this situation.
4 years ago:
Place: My College.
Both of us got into the top university of the state as we scored well in our board exam. That’s the default college where all toppers of the state study. So no one could blame me that I chose the same college as her’s. Our friendship journey, thus continued and we became more and more close. I liked her for the way she was. Innocence at its peak. She loved the way I cared about her. I advice her a lot. I was so happy that I got such a friend. I didn’t know why but I never had any love feelings on her. She was my best friend and I was so happy with it. In fact content with it. Until………. One day
She: I wanted to say you something personally.
Me: what is that?
She: First assure me you won’t mistake me or get angry.
Me: Sure tell me.
She: I fear I may fall in love with you ra.
OH MY GOD. What the hell did she say now?
Me: What?
She: No ra. You are so close to me. and you take care of me so much. I fear all these will make me fall in love with you.
Me: So you are going to Love me? or Leave me?
She: No ra How can I love you. You are my best friend.
Before I could respond
She: Ok leave it ra. I feel so embarrassed to speak about it. Needn’t speak about this anymore. Don’t worry I’ll be alright. I’ll be your old friend. It’s just that I’m new to this kind of affection.
So I was not allowed to speak about it anymore. Could a guy be the same after such a thing told by a girl???? Everything around me changed. You have to be guy to experience how it felt. Guys fall just for a girl’s smile. But now this girl had told me that she may fall in love with me. Oh my god.. I was in heaven. As a Software programmer, I should say I was instantiated. I was expecting her to propose me any day. At least I was expecting her to speak about this topic. But she never did. She also refused to speak when I myself ask anything related to it. I thought I should give her a break. May be she was afraid of taking such a huge decision now. I know about her. She is innocent and afraid about making decisions. So let me wait. Where is she going to go? Waiting is pleasure in love.
I was not the same old friend from that day. Suddenly she appeared beautiful to my eyes. She was always beautiful. But why didn’t I notice it till now? “Surya” will be a perfect match for her. I look like “Dhanush”. But even Dhanush got his chance to act with “Shriya” and “Genelia”. So why won’t I get a girl like her? I became possessive on her from that day. I cannot accept her being close to any other guy. I used to admire her in every dress she wore. I waited to see her every day.
Today:
They’ll be calling the groom any time now. I was getting ready. My brother’s daughter came running towards me and told that the priest asked the groom to come to the stage. I lifted her and walked towards the stage. My angel saw me coming. With a lovely smile she greeted me with her eyes… I went near the stage….
6 months ago.
Place: Hyderabad.
College days were over. I was working in a software company. A more responsible person now. So was she. I never regretted my decision of waiting. We were excellent friends through these years. Caring and supporting each other more than ever. I was still confused about the right time to express my feelings. Obviously afraid of the consequences. But damn sure she would accept me anyway. How the hell would she refuse me? I was her most beloved person for almost 6 years now.
It was my birthday. I had a few surprises from my close friends(including her). We all met after a long time. It was a pleasant evening and we were enjoying. I had her mobile in my hand. Casually browsing the pictures and videos in her phone gallery, I came across this particular video suddenly. It was her in the video and she recorded it on her own. She started speaking on the video. It was addressed to me.
“She: Hi ra…., a very beloved birthday wishes to my beloved friend ever. I want to…………”
Suddenly she snatched the phone from my hand.
She: hello sir,,, what are you doing?? These things are supposed to be surprises….
Me: hey gimme that.. don’t worry I’ll react as if I’m surprised. Shall I say ‘Oh My God?’ after seeing that? Or else temme what you would like to hear. I’ll react accordingly.
She: No just wait till night. Can’t give it now.
Me: Please???
She: No!!!!
So once again I was excited in life. I got the wildest imaginations about what could that be. I was restless. I wanna know it soon. Adding fuel, some of my friends even commented that my surprises were not finished and my biggest surprise is yet to come. Damn How can a guy wait? Somehow I got the feeling that its her proposal. The video was for four minutes. Wasn’t four minutes enough for proposing? How should I react? I shouldn’t accept immediately. Let me have some fun. All sort of craziest thoughts circled my head.
So, finally I saw the video. Absolute disappointment. It was the usual stuff of how much she values me and my friendship, blah , blah… complete four minutes of praising our friendship. The surprises which my friends meant came from my parents. I had to appreciate her for the effort she put in for making my birthday memorable. I was lucky. But not lucky enough. Again I was instantiated. May be referenced this time. More than ever. I can’t wait more. I felt the time has come. But I thought I should wait a month more. It’ll be her birthday next month. I thought of giving myself as her gift. I started dreaming on how to propose her. I couldn’t sleep properly anymore. As wise men said, for the first time reality became more beautiful than dreams.
A few days were left for her birthday and so I haven’t proposed yet. My cell phone beeped and it was a message from her.
She: hey you know what?? They started seeing alliance for me.
That was the most shocking news of my life. What the hell… My heart felt very heavy. Damn… I couldn’t bare the pain. I didn’t know how to react. But eventually my reaction was
Me: Wow that’s great. So when’ll be Ur marriage then?
She: Mostly by next April or May.
Immediately I started counting the number of days left. That’s hardly six months. I was not able to digest it. Just 6 months. I didn’t know whether I should propose now. All these years I had a strong belief that she’ll obviously accept when I propose. All those beliefs shattered. Then she added
She: My dad spoke to me yesterday. He almost broke down. He told how much he values me and said I should earn respect for the family. He asked me not to love anyone.
By the way, which dad asks her daughter to go love someone. I was sitting in my room lonely thinking of my fate. I wanted to cry badly. I couldn’t sleep. I was sure she won’t accept now if I propose. I decided against it. My days became the slowest ever. I wanted to share my sorrow with someone. Unluckily all my friends were her friends too. I couldn’t take risk on that. My cell beeped again.
She: you won’t feel ah? That I’ll be leaving you in another 6 months. I’ll miss you very much.
Me: No I won’t. I know this’ll happen and I was prepared for it. You’ll have to leave your dad, Mom and Bro. It’s just like that. But Six months is too little time. Anyway I’ll manage. (Blatant lie)
She: So you won’t feel?
Me: I’m saying no na. Then what?
She: Imagine right now I fall in love with someone. That time will you feel?
Me: Why? What difference does that make from the previous question? I’ll feel the same only. I told la someday its gonna happen anyway. Then what?
She: No… Me selecting someone is different from my parents selecting someone. If I select someone myself, wont you feel why is that someone not You……. I mean I was so close to you more than anyone else.
I wanted to change the topic. I don’t want to speak about it anymore. I’ll surely break down. I seriously got no idea what girls mean or want. The most mysterious creatures…..
Me: So how would you like Ur husband to be? How should he look?
She: Well obviously like all girls expect he should be fair and handsome.
I never felt myself handsome in my entire life. First time ever I started feeling inferior about my appearance. Maybe that’s why she didn’t want me, I thought to myself.
Me: and what should be his Status? Like salary etc.
She: He should earn at least 75k and he should own a house and a car.
Now that’s four times my salary and I don’t even a own a bike. Inferior and more inferior.
She: and preferably I want a groom from foreign countries. Like Singapore. But not U.S.
Well I’ve been out of AP 5 times at the maximum and never crossed Karnataka or Tamil Nadu. Inferiority kills me. I wanted to hide my face somewhere. In one way I was happy that at least I could make up a reason for the unanswered question of ‘Why Not Me?’ I couldn’t message her anymore. I gave some excuse and told will continue later. I wished that later never came.
But it did come. She asked the same question which I didn’t want to answer. The same what if she selected someone by herself and that’s not me.
Me: Why should I feel for that. Its your choice and as a friend I’ll help you in making that decision. That’s it.
She: So you never thought why you shouldn’t be the one I select?
I don’t wanna answer. I was losing my control. What the hell she wanted….. but she continued
She: Ok what if I fall in love with any of my friends other than you? Like Eshwar, Naresh or Kiran? They are my friends too. When I decide to love a friend, wont you feel why that friend is not you….
Me: So that means you have some feelings for one among them.
She: No I didn’t mean like that. I just gave an example.
Me: So if you choose among them, who has the highest probability?
I didn’t wanna ask this question. But somehow it came. But I never expected an answer. In fact I don’t want an answer for it. But she answered.
She: obviously Naresh. I’m more close to him than Eshwar and Kiran.
That was it. The first thing that came to my mind was that Naresh is a Brahmin. So I had another reason to make up. Frustration, fear of losing her, inferiority and now newly added possessiveness made me lose my control.
Me: FYI, I’m more close than Naresh.
She: Ya, but I can’t Love you ra….
Me: Why is that?
She: Wou are my Best Friend ra.
Me: so?
She: How can someone love their best friend ra?
Me: On which planet or culture, did they frame that rule? I haven’t heard about it.
She: No ra… how can a girl be intimate with her best friend?
Me: So a girl can be intimate with her other friends but not best friend?
She: No I said Naresh as an example only.
Me: Ok leave about him. So you are ready to be intimate with some stranger your dad shows but not with your friend who does everything and anything to make you happy?
She: I’ll feel embarrassed to think my friend in that way.
Me: Just now you accepted you’ve chance of falling in love with sachin. Won’t you feel embarrassed with him?
She: What happened to you suddenly? Just now you too said, you won’t feel, when I get married and you are prepared for it nu…
Me: It’s really Sad you can’t find that it was a lie..
She: So you’ll feel then?
Me: What the hell you thought of me? Some robot without a heart? Even robots love nowadays.
She: Then why did you tell a lie?
Me: What difference will that make now? You have your own “only Friend-no Lover” theory.
She: seriously I can’t love you da. I never thought you like that.
Me: Silly girls. You expect your husband to be a good friend. But you won’t accept a good friend to be your husband.
She: You won’t understand it. Please leave this topic. I’m sorry for asking you that question.
Me: Yes I don’t understand. I really don’t understand. But you??? Either you don’t wanna understand or act as if you don’t understand. I accept I don’t have the money. I’m not good looking. I don’t live in Singapore, but I just bet you one thing… No one will ever care for you like I do. No one can keep you happy more than I do.
She: Just leave me alone please.
Yes I left her alone. I didn’t disturb her after that. I was hurt. I had no courage or hope that I’ll convince her. I started maintaining distance from her. I should practice to live a life sans her. I knew it’ll be difficult. Sometimes she used to ask why am I not the old friend anymore. She asked as if she don’t know the reason. Girls….. girls….. girls….. even god will find it difficult to understand them.
Today:
She sat on her dad’s lap as in Brahmin’s tradition. She didn’t lift her face. She was constantly seeing down, like any other girl during marriage. The priest passed the sacred thread (thaali). I had a lump on my throat. Then…………..
HE collected the ‘thaali’ and put three knots. Yes…. “HE”…. A fair and handsome looking guy working in ‘Google’ and earning 1.25L per Month. The couple is likely to go to Europe in a few days. I wished them good luck and left the marriage hall soon. I couldn’t stay there more. I never drank in my life. I had no reason why I didn’t. May be because she doesn’t like it. But that day I did. She is no more Mine. I can’t disturb her anymore the way I used to. I can’t share my deepest secrets with her. I can’t be the first one to wish her ‘Happy Birthday’ every year. I don’t have a shoulder to cry anymore. I can’t tease her for her new hairstyle. She is gonna be close with someone else. She is not gonna ask ‘Are you OK now?’, for every hour, whenever I fall ill. She is not gonna share the gossips with me anymore. She is not gonna ask me how her new dress looks, even though she knows my answer will be ‘it sucks’. And above all, to be modest, being an ordinary guy with all human feelings,
Few months later:
My cell phone rang. And Yes,It was her. I spoke to her after a very long time and it was some ordinary greetings between two distant strangers. She was happy with her new life. And I’m happy to know that. Towards the end of the conversation, unexpectedly she asked
She: When are you gonna marry? You shall love someone. To get over the feelings. If you miss me so much….
Me: Why? You framed your own rule and asked “How can a best friend become a husband?”. I’ll love a girl and what if she frames her own rule and asks “How can a Lover become a Husband?”.
I hung up the phone immediately. Who knows what girls come up with…………. As I already said even ‘The Creator’ himself cannot understand them...

Mein Kampf by Adolf Hitler

Volume One: A RECKONING

1. In the House of My Parents
2. Years of study and Suffering in Vienna
3. General Political Considerations based on My Vienna Period
4. Munich
5. The World War
6. War Propaganda
7. The Revolution
8. The Beginning of My political Activity
9. The "German Workers Party"
10. Causes of the collapse
11. Nation and Race
12. The first period of development of the National Socialist German Worker's Party


Volume Two: THE NATIONAL SOCIALIST MOVEMENT

1. Philosophy and Party
2. The State
3. Subjects and Citizens
4. Personality and the conception of the Folkish State
5. Philosophy and Organisation
6. The Struggle of the early Period - The Significance of the Spoken Word
7. The Struggle with the Red Front
8. The Strong Man is Mightiest alone
9. Basic ideas regarding the meaning and organization of the SA
10. Federalism as a Mask
11. Propaganda and Organization
12. The Trade - Union Question
13. German Alliance Policy after the War
14. Eastern Orientation or Eastern Policy
15. The right of Emergency defense conclusion

Simple Technique to get other's User Name and Password

One of the most simplest technique which I often use is key logger.

These are the following steps you need to do with key logger :-

1. Download it from here. Want to download free key logger.

2. Install its setup to public libraries, cyber cafes, your friend computer or your office computer.

3. Hide it after mentioning your email id into this software.

4. Check your email, you start getting user name and password of everybody who use that computer. And their is very basic thing about user name and password. People often have same password for all the services they used.

Learn Hacking in 5 Easy Steps

First of all I wanna tell you that hacking is a art. I am teaching you this art so that you can make yourself more secure. I don't want you to use my techniques to harm others because hackers never harm others, crackers do. And we are Hackers not cracker.

There are 5 easy steps to learn Hacking :-

1. Take all safety Measures to hide yourself from target.

There are lots of techniques to hide yourself from target computer. I recommend you to use as much techniques as you can.

I am mentioning few important tricks below :-
• Use Hide Ip Software :- This software will help you to hide your IP address.
• Use Firewall :- Firewall secure your computer as well as restrict any personal information from going outside.
• Use Proxy servers :- Whenever you want to surf the computer of your target use proxy servers.
• Use others username and password :- Try to avoid using your own user name and password for internet connection. Learn the technique to get other's user name and password.


2. Find out the IP Address of Target Computer.

• What is Ip address :- It's full form is Internet Protocol Address. Protocol means the way computer talks to each other and Internet protocol means , way in which two computer talks to each on internet. So the complete meaning of Ip address is address of a computer who wants to talk to other computers on internet.
There are two important things about ip address :-
 It is unique for every computer.
 It is needed every time we connect to internet.
• Use of IP address in Hacking :- Ip address is one of the most important part of hacking. To learn its importance in hacking first of all we need to know what is hacking. All i can say here is that if we don't know the ip address of target computer we can't able to move single step forward in getting access to target computer.
• Ways to find out IP address :-
o Ping
o tracert
o dns query


3.Gather information about target computer such as its operating system ,time,date etc etc.
• What 's the need ?
o To be able to know weaknesses of target computer.
o To exploit those weakness.
o Learn more how we can exploit it.
• How to gather information?
o Telnet
o Dns Query
o Port Scan
o tracert


4.Use Search engine (according to information obtained from above steps) to get tools which will help us to hack target computer.

Search engines like google are very close friends of hackers. If we do all the things mentioned above we know exactly where vulnerability lies in target computer. To use that vulnerability we search for available tools on google.com. After downloading specific tools we need IP Address of target computer ( we already know) to get access on other computer.

Learn to use that vulnerability

5. Leave one or two files on the target computer so to get easy access in future.
To get access again and again hackers usually leave files on target computer. For eg Net cat which allow them to get access again and again. Download netcat

THE 10 MOST IMPORTANT THINGS IN LIFE

LOVE: The special feeling that makes you feel warm and wonderful.
RESPECT: Treating others as well as you would like to be treated.
APPRECIATION: To be greatful for all the good things that life has to offer.
HAPPINESS: The full enjoyment of each moment.
A smilling face!
FORGIVENESS: The ability to let things be without thug ht of anger.
SHARING: The joy of giving without thought of receiving.
HONESTY: The quality of always telling truth.
INTEGRITY: The purity of doing whats right no matter what.
COMPASSION: The essence of feeling another's pain, while easing their heart.
PEACE: The reward for living the 10 most important things....